Interesting, how Valentine's Day stirs up thoughts about soulmates, twin flames, life partners and romantic relationships.
The two biggest decisions we get to make in our life is what we are going to do for a living and who we are going to love.
What do we really want from a relationship? It is important that as we focus, we keep a clear vision in mind about the important attributes we want in that person. It is important that we keep thanking our spirit guides for connecting us with the person who fits our vision.
If there has been a long passage of time, with long being a relative term, it is important not to slip into a negative frame of mind and think that "all the good ones are taken" or that "I had a great relationship once then I lost it" or that "there might not be a person for me out there."
Holding such thoughts do not help us achieve our goal in the same way that it would not work for us to think that starting our own business is not a good idea because it is difficult and other people have done something like we have in mind already. The fact that others have successful relationships and successful businesses can be excellent sources of encouragement. Inspiration is frequently drawn from those who have gone before us and created beautiful and joyous paths that we can glean valuable insights from.
A common occurrence is when we meet someone and they have a lot of the qualities we want, we just need to get back in touch with our spirit guides for another chat. And we thank them for sending us someone and ask that the next person have this factor that was missing. Don't be confused. Meeting someone means that our spirit guides are answering our request. So instead of seeing a near miss as a wrong choice, look at it as being on the path to getting a response, we just need to fine tune the response.
Keep in mind that soulmates can be people that we are in relationships for a while who teach us valuable life lessons. Soulmate does not always mean happily ever after because maybe we were only meant to be together for a lesson that could be difficult.
Another important perspective is that soulmates also turn up in our life as good friends, the kind of people we feel free sharing with because we feel open about speaking in heartfelt ways and they are always there for us. So good friends can be soulmates too. Instead of one major encounter in relationships in our life, we have several. So take a look at the variety of possibilities befoere us and enjoy this journey.
Time for the next chapter for me. I am looking for new living and working arrangements and will consider all options that are presented to me. I have no deadline and it is not an emergency, just something I would like to do this year. I am grateful for whoever will be contacting me. As always, I know that who ever contacts me is guided by spirit.
Thank you!
Any time any one of you contacts me, it really helps make my day whether you want to make an appointment or just to keep in touch and let me know how you are doing. I like hearing your stories of what has been happening since the last time we met. And of course, I am always ready to help with what is next. Let this note help make your day. I love you.
