Monday, February 4, 2019

Letting Go to Let Love In

Keeping a good flow of energy going has everything to do with letting go of things that are not aligned with our purpose or goals. Making a practice of letting go will speed our journey while adding joy to our life.

Given that this is February, we see Valentine's sales and promotions everywhere. So why don't we take a look at that from another angle? I think that we definitely have agreement among us that everyone wants to have good relationships and that includes close, personal romantic relationships. An aspect that we might be missing is that when we are simply focused on not having a relationship is that we are manifesting more of a period of not having a relationship. Remember, where our thoughts go, our energy goes.

Those of us who have a good relationship going, do the best we can to keep it going. Those of us who do not currently have a relationship going and would like to have one, often fall into the thinking trap about why we do not have one. Again, that focuses energy on what we don't have.

The best strategy is to create a very fluid energy into our lives so that we have made clear decisions about what we really want and like. So we delete from our space and our thinking all those things that we do not like, have outgrown or contains some sort of hindrance or negative energy. So when we look at our space, all we see are things that are beautiful and useful that provide us with both nurturing and focus.

When we extend that mindset to our every day feelings and activities, we increase the fluidity of our energy field. So if we are projecting feelings of love to everyone we encounter and do work and play that we love to do, we are putting ourselves into the flow of where to find love, and this energy draws it to us. In this process, no doubt we will encounter and consider people for partners who we can recognize right away as not a good fit, but the positive sign for us is that love that we feel, love that we are, love that we project is magnetizing us to draw to us those feelings and energies. So you see, even the ones we recognize as not fitting are in a stream flowing toward us that also contains those who would be excellent matches to us.

That is why matches frequently are unexpected developments or surprises. After considering and dismissing the possibilities that do not really fit, we may fall into a negative thought that maybe there is not a good one coming up. But we have to stay alert because among the ones we do not want are the ones we do want. So we need to be careful to continue to keep our eyes and ears open and our energy senses engaged. If we stay alert and keep that confidence up that you will find a good partner they may turn up when we are least expecting it.

An important thing to remember is that maintaining a loving atmosphere, attitude, outlook, and perspective keeps lots of positive energy swirling around us that atmosphere will draw in partners. I am saying that the attitude comes first and then people are attracted to it. The opposite is not true. If you are focused on finding the perfect partner, you may be missing other good opportunities for input from other areas of your life. Keepimg the big pictured tuned to love, kindness, cooperation and joyful spirits will drawn in all kinds of good connections, including a partner. Focusing only on the partner search may not assist in making your bigger picture better.

Letting go of old energies makes way for the newer energies. It is our way of evolving. Have we reevaluated what we want in a relationship now? It could very well be different from what we thought was best in the past. We may need to update and clarify our vision. And the clearer the vision, the more energy we can give it.

I love all of you and love to help you to find your way into your alignment. I will always do my best for all of you with the assistance of my spirit guides. Any time any one of you contacts me, it really helps make my day. Let this note help make your day. I love you.

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