Thursday, May 12, 2022

Listening to Spirit

 

Listening to Spirit
One of the early creators of ambient music described it this way: this music does not demand attention but it rewards listening.
That expression has always stuck with me and shows us a powerful way to use subtle energies.
Our ability to tune into waves of energy that are subtle helps us to both navigate the energy patterns around us, and appreciate details that are important in the big picture. For example, I prefer ambient music when I am trying to focus on a project, doing a reiki healing session, and also when I am working out at the gym. For me, the increased focus helps propel me in a gentle way.
When using music in chanting rituals such as kirtan, which uses the songs from the Hindu traditions, raises energy by getting people to do call and response chanting together. In that setting, the lyrics lead the way. Every spiritual tradition and religion around the world uses sound as a driving force in their rituals. Sound unifies vibrations.
Back in the day when Catholic churches used Gregorian chants which were sung a capella in Latin, a person could get chill bumps hearing those voices resonate off the stone walls of Gothic cathedrals. Even people who not Catholic are moved by these recordings, entranced with the harmonies and vibrations.
There are people in this area who conduct gong baths, which use nothing but vibrations to change feelings and quiet minds. Much research has been done on sound and healing and the vibrations of different kinds of sounds all work for this purpose.
When I used to lead drumming circles I always marveled at the way a room full of people who did not know each other and were not musicians could find themselves playing together within minutes, raising and unifying the energy of a group using nothing but the combined vibrations arising from the rhythms. Researchers have found that participating in drumming circles boosts immune systems, produces feelings of well being, and releases emotional trauma in those who played.
The Sufi practice of zikr is a dance with chanting that lifts into trance very easily, with the combination of words and movement creating a spiritual vortex.
The Sufis also gave us the poet Rumi. The leading interpreter of his poetry is Coleman Barks, former professor at the University of Georgia, who I had the pleasure of meeting and hearing read this elegant poetry. I asked him why poetry books are the kind of literature that sells the least, but yet people love to come to poetry readings. His answer was this. "When a poet speaks the words out loud, he is launching arrows to the heart of the listener. Poetry is most powerful spoken out loud."
I always remember Malidoma Some, an African drummer and shaman saying that anyone who has trouble with drumming has trouble with listening. In drumming it is our ears that let us connect with the others in the circle, not our eyes. Closing our eyes and opening our ears is the way to connect through sound.
The Tibetan Book of the Dead says that our last sense to go is hearing when we die, and that is why they continue to say the prayers long after the person stops breathing. Hearing, in their tradition, is the sense that aids the person most in their transition.
An American musician, Therese Schroeder-Sheker, played harp and used her voice, playing at the bedside of dying patients in St. Patrick Hospital in Missoula Montana, of all places, from 1992-2002, using the music to assist in their transition.
Look at all the ways that music connects us to spirit. Notice how closely connected hearing is to spirit.
For those of you who say that you have a hard time meditating, try picking up a simple instrument like a tambourine and within as little as three beats, you can go into trance. You heard that right. You can shift your consciousness in as little as three beats. The number 3 again.
If you listen, spirit often communicates with us without words. Sometimes words matter, sometimes they do not. Rhythm creates trance and trance creates energy. That is why when we chant in these other languages it always needs to keep it original sound to work, so the words are rhythm tools, rather than words. The original language has a music that goes with it that can get lost in translation.
Researchers find special resonances for sound healing within chambers of the pyramids of Egypt. Older than the pyramids is Newgrange, in Ireland. It features a domed chamber totally fashioned out of stones fitted together without any cement or other binding material. This where the ancient high kings and druids had their ashes laid to rest and those walls heard sacred chants reverberating off the stone. I asked the tour guide and she let me stay behind and chant. It did not take much for those walls to come alive.
One simple definition I have heard is that when you are praying you are talking. When you are meditating, you are listening.
What are you being rewarded with by listening?
When you turn more attention to your hearing, what do you notice? What messages and energies is spirit bringing into our lives, with or without words?
I always love hearing from you, so if you feel like sending me a note, calling or coming to see me, please do!
Have a wonderful day!

Tuesday, May 3, 2022

The Fool's Journey

 

The Fool's Journey






















Let's stop and consider what it means to be foolish for a moment, because we have all had foolish moments in our lives.
How often do we look back at our lives and recognize how some of the steps or missteps we have made on our journey was the catalyst for a big development?
Do we connect the dots easily in our stories?
Remember the times when you wanted to try a new idea and other people in your life thought what you were doing was foolish?
Maybe it was. Then again, maybe it turned out to be brilliant and you found success. One of the keys to understanding the Fool is to realize that the fool wants to be on their journey which will involve both inner and outer travel as they follow their path.
One of the concepts for learning life lessons offered in the major cards is often titled The Fool's Journey. As we meditate on the pictures in the major arcana cards, life lessons of all kinds from spirit to love to justice to restrictions to nurturing to death to karma are mirrored in our own lives. They say that the Fool is numbered at zero because he can be both the highest and the lowest card in the deck. The Fool is the only character who is wise enough to know that he does not know everything.
If you have a deck of cards at home, look at the major cards again, meditating on each one in order. What do you see by looking at these images? Do you recognize how sometimes you feel foolish and stupid for something you said or did, while at other times, those risks you took turned out to be a brilliant move? Can you tell the difference in those feelings? Do you have the self confidence to continue on your journey even when others call you foolish?
These two cards in this picture are from Ciro Marchetti's Tarot of Dreams. I love some of the changes he made in this deck. What you see in these two images are the way he perfectly bookended the major arcana with the Fool's Journey. The character who begins the journey ends the journey surrounded by the elements of earth, air, fire and water, which also represent our 4 bodies, mental, physical, spiritual and emotional. The fool has gone far, and has reaped rewards and he still has more to learn.
One of the first moves a person could make was wandering away from their home. In response to the question of How could you leave, the fool simply answers that they want to see what else is out there, or who else is out there.
Another example of when someone may think we are foolish is when we leave one career path to get on a different one.
Or someone may think we are foolish when we ended one relationship to get into another one. We know the truth when we see the results of our choices. In your journey from the beginning to experiencing more in the world, notice how when all 4 of our bodies are in balance, we make great progress, results go our way and we have much to be grateful for? The fool grows because of his willingness to take the journey.
The Fool's Journey applies to all of us. We are all fools in some ways as we journey through life. Notice which of your foolish moves were a mess and which ones were great. What can we learn from what we have done? Where will that lead us next?
I always love hearing from you, so if you feel like sending me a note, calling or coming to see me, please do!
Have a wonderful day!

Synchronicity

 

Synchronicity
We have all heard the expression that there are no accidents. Another term for that idea is synchronicity. Sometimes we are more aware of how that is working our lives than others. The more aware we are of synchronicity, the more successful we are in achieving our goals.
There are common experiences which many of us are familiar with, such as having a friend call while you are thinking about them. Or you and a friend have the same idea at the same time.
Sometimes in my practice, it will happen that one person needs to change their appointment and right after they call, someone else calls to ask if I have any appointments available today. Do you think that spirit meant for that person to see me?
How about when a kitchen appliance breaks down and you need to replace it and all of a sudden you get to the store and they have one left, the kind you need, and it is the only one on the shelf?
Carl Jung, the pioneering psychiatrist, coined the term synchronicity. He noted that there are always patterns in life, but we do not always recognize them. So he used tarot, astrology and I Ching among other tools to help recognize patterns.
Consider how it happens that we randomly shuffle a deck, then when we select cards from the deck those cards address what was on our mind at the time. I think we can also regard synchronicity as guidance from spirit.
Synchronicity is a symbol of alignment. When you are asking someone to help you with something and they say yes, you have alignment. If you are thinking about changing jobs and suddenly a friend mentions something to you about exactly that. Or you are checking your email and find an article about that thing you were thinking about. When this happens, you are aligned with spirit. In other words, spirit is affirming that your choice is on track with what is good for you.
Or you ask for a sign about this decision you are making while you are taking a walk and you see a shape in the clouds or a tree branch that signals to you. Or your favorite bird or animal crosses your path at that moment.
People who have a close connection often find themselves in sync when they get the same idea at the same time.
In this crazy time we have been living in, some people really wanted to change their work, whether it was working from home or changing careers. For many, the interruptions of covid helped them get what they wanted. I am certainly aware that this was also a painful time for many. My point is simply that disasters, losses and painful events can also give birth to positive developments. What is in sync for one person is not necessarily in sync for another. We each need to recognize what alignment works best for us.
Pay attention to synchronicity as guidance from spirit. Lots of people notice signs in numbers, whether it is noticing time on a clock, date on a calendar, a price, a birth date or weight. Have you ever noticed when you are shopping for produce how you might decide to pick up 3 of these or 4 of those, not because you are precisely following a recipe, but because you just had a feeling it would be good to pick those numbers of those things?
Synchronicity always brings with it life lessons. Why is it that we get signs when it is time to begin or end a relationship, job, exercise or diet, and other major life decisions? These other changes may be happening because spirit wants us to meet new people or change our habits. Spirit may be opening the way for us to learn new things. In business, for example, spirit could move us into a position where we have to learn to manage other people, but for others, the lesson may be to to learn to work independently.
Many years ago I had a heart attack, which these days they refer to as an event, which I find kind of humorous term. It certainly was an event. That event made me change my health habits and that is why I am still here without having more of those events. Coincidence? No. Spirit gave me a sign and I got it. People who do not change their habits after an event have more events.
Remember, where your thoughts go, your energy goes. Make the correlation between those synchronicites and where your attention was focused. Synchronicity, from this perspective, would be spirit answering your call and sometimes we are surprised at how they answer. People who make notes of their own dreams find synchronicities between their dreams and developments in their lives.
It is no accident that we met, and it is no accident that you are getting this newsletter. Think about it.
I always love hearing from you, so if you feel like sending me a note, calling or coming to see me, please do!
Have a wonderful day!

How do I know when?

 

How do I know when?
How do we know when is the right time to make our move?
Our life is made up of a series of rhythms within rhythms, so recognizing these patterns can help us know when to make our move to begin, end or change something.
You may have noticed different rhythms in your body but not always recognize them for what they are. At times it may feel that although things are moving rapidly in the world around me, I might feel a slow moving energy within that is more deliberate and the rhythm is aligned with my intentions which make sense to me even though they are not in sync with other events, they are in sync with what I am working on. So the rhythm within the rhythm is how we keep on track in our life in the middle of all of this.
One that we all recognize is circadian rhythms, which is our natural rhythm for being awake and going to sleep. When we go to sleep about the same time every night and get up about the same time every morning, our body gets better sleep because is finds its rhythm and whatever we are doing works better when we find the rhythm that works best with it.
Women have a monthly cycle related to menstruation, and a different monthly energy is experienced by everyone when we follow the cycles of the moon every month. There are natural times for using that energy to decide when to begin or wind down an energy.
The Farmer's Almanac always has pages in there that detail these times for timing all the rhythms of our life, from starting new business, ending old business, the best times to cut hair, best times to cut nails, best times to bake, best times to brew, best times for hunting, fishing, planting, pruning and much more.
Ultradian rhythms happen throughout our day, often in 90 minute cycles. For example, when working out at the gym, I notice that my peak performance time seems to be 90 minutes. Often when studying a book or working on my computer, I notice that at these intervals I need a break. Often when teaching I offer breaks at intervals to help with this. We all need breaks to stretch, move around a bit or get water or something to refocus our energies.
You might never have noticed the pattern before but now that you do, you can plan to use it.
Are you aware of the patterns of rhythms in your life? Are you making good use of them?

The photo above is the great drummer, Layne Redmond, one of my teachers who left us much too soon. She is one of the reasons I love drum breaks and use sound in healing.
They say that breath was the first drummer. Think about that when you are taking a break.
I always love hearing from you, so if you feel like sending me a note, calling or coming to see me, please do!
Have a wonderful day!

Connecting Head & Heart

 

Connecting Head & Heart
Feeling in sync with the rhythms of our lives is one way in which we can know we are in alignment. Rhythms bring us in touch with feelings.
Feelings are another key to getting more out of life, especially when our head & heart are aligned. Our senses are primary ways we know about the world we live in, constantly in touch with our surroundings though sight, hearing, touch, taste and smell. Our senses help form our feelings, so these factors may be totally non-verbal, and non-verbal messages are still messages.
How often do we decide to not make a business deal or cancel a relationship because something just did not feel right?
How many times when you were moving swiftly to achieve your goals did you feel like you were confident your would succeed because your desire was strong?
Now when you reflect back on some of these decisions, you can tell where that feeling of alignment provided you accurate guidance, can't you?
You have heard that where your thoughts go, your energy goes. Think about the importance of aligning our thoughts with our feelings.
That is a key to success in life. Why? How many times have we had an idea that we did not feel like acting on?
Notice the difference when we have an idea that excites us and we feel confident about it.
Notice how much agreement from others your get when you feel that way.
Notice how many of your successful ideas or projects had that feeling connected to them.
Sometimes when we are just out walking and we just feel like taking a different path, and then we have a pleasant experience walking that path even though we did not know in advance it would be more beautiful than the path we more often take.
Why do we do that? Curiosity is one motivator. We want to learn new things, try new things, take a different path, taste, smell, touch, see and hear things in a new way. Our senses stimulate our mind.
Notice when you feel aligned. In any major life decision, how you feel about the decision is important. How many times did a gut feeling change your mind about a decision? Were you glad it did?
So how does this fit with where your thoughts go, your energy goes?
Notice how when you have feelings of low self worth that you do not get the respect you deserve? Notice how when you have low self esteem you do not even ask for what you want?
Notice how when you are full of joy that more things will work out for you? Notice when you are more positive, more people say yes to you?
Courage is when your feelings take charge even in the face of a doubt or fear. In this way, your heart can cause your thoughts to align with your heart. I will find a way to do this! So your feelings can focus your mind.
Our mind does influence our feelings. When the two are not in sync, you feel like things are not going well, so you need to change.
Being happy every day is a choice. Waking up with our first thoughts turning to gratitude for this new day can set the tone for a good day and get us off to a good start. No matter what else we have to be grateful for, we can begin by being grateful for this day.
Waking up opening our mind to guidance from spirit welcomes in new ideas and new solutions. Notice how when we are focused on achieving a goal that something may pop up that will help us achieve our goal that we did not plan on and had not thought of before?
That is how the universe helps us when we are focused on our goals and our head & heart are aligned.
I always love hearing from you, so if you feel like sending me a note, calling or coming to see me, please do!
Have a wonderful day!